The separation process can seem lonely, but the best way to put yourself at ease is to have a consultation so you know the law and your rights.  The date of separation in North Carolina begins when one spouse moves from the marital residence into a separate residence with at least one of them having the intent to continue living separate and apart.  Prior to either party making such a move, it is best to obtain legal advice on how to structure this move to make the transition as smooth as it can be through executing a Separation and Property Settlement Agreement which will provide definite guidelines as to child custody and support provisions, alimony and property transactions.  If you are considering separation, please schedule an appointment at Parker Law, PA prior to making any move.